Hey readers,
I just finished this book and thought I'd write up a quick review of it before I get into reviewing A Unfortunate Series of Events. My mum told me about this book and she'd heard it was very interesting. I will admit that for, parents, siblings, relatives, carers, friends and anyone else who knows an autistic person or else is doing research, then this book would benefit you.
For general reading though, its probably not going to be that interesting. However, I would still say to pick it up because it gives a good insight into a world in which we can't see and other books on the subject have struggled to put across.
I know people who are autistic, so to read a book that allows me to understand why they do what they do was a bit special. This book isn't a straight guide about everything though, but it does want to make you change your behavior towards people. That old saying of fearing what you don't know is still very true today and it's known that once we've actually understood the fear that we don't fear it any longer. For me this book appears to be just that.
It's written by Naoki Higashida, a Japanese writer and blogger, when he was thirteen. The book is a mixture of non-fiction and fiction, which makes giving examples easier.It also has grey-scale pictures of flowers and patterns. For me though it also shows Higashida as a fiction writer. In the opening, it states that Higashida's autism effects his speech and communication. He has learned to over come some of this by using a cardboard keyboard with letters on it and also a normal computer keyboard. It's through these methods that he's written this book and more.
The book also includes an introduction by David Mitchell, (Cloud Atlas) in which he discuss his son's autism and how he found the book to be very useful. That really gets you interested to find out more, but as you turn the pages you discover that the narrative is nearly all questions and answers. So, instead of the normal story or non-fiction layout, each 'chapter' starts with a question, which Higashida then answers across one or two pages.
This format makes it easier to read and understand. It feels like a secretive, quick look into the mind of someone autistic and this context it really works. The questions appear to be the most commonly asked ones, such as; Why do you take ages to answer questions? Do you prefer to be on your own? and Is it true you hate being touched? Higashida gives clear answers to them all and makes the point of stating that not all autistic people have the same dislikes and issues, but that they all want to be respected and loved.
I've learned a lot from reading this book and I can now see why my autistic friends behave the way they do. It's also helped me to understand that autistic people are just like everyone else; they are creative, intelligent, have a love of learning and nature and just try to get on with things. One of the saddest things I'm taking away from this book is that some autistic people believe that they should be on their own due to how they act because they know it causes upset for others and that is something that they hate about themselves. Many autistic people just want to be around others because they like the rest of us don't want to be alone.
Higahida says that at first he wanted to be normal like everyone else, but then he decided that if it was possible he wouldn't change. I agree with him and I think that the world needs to see people with special needs and disabilities as being normal people and not judging them because they see things differently.
'If all of you can grasp this truth about us, we are handed a ray of hope.'
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